Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back Even if She Has a New Boyfriend

  • 15 years ago
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Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back Even if She Has a New Boyfriend.

If your ex girlfriend has a new boyfriend, yes you can still win her back. But, you need to be patient and handle things correctly.

First, here are some things you absolutely, positively DO NOT want to do. You do not want to beg and plead to get back together. You do not want to promise to change your ways if she'll just take you back.

And, you cannot even think about going so far as to try and break up the new relationship she might be having. This type of behavior is immature, appears too needy and will probably drive her away forever. It will cement in her mind that you are not right for each other.

Do not follow her around on her dates, or show up everywhere you think she and her new boyfriend are going to be. This is not good for you, and your peace of mind. Plus it makes you appear to be stalking, which is just creepy.

In the other hand, don't go out of your way to avoid her. If you frequent the same places restaurants, clubs, school or whatever don't stop going there to avoid her.

Instead, the next time you end up in the same place together, when you walk in and see her, acknowledge her. But instead of going up to her and trying to get her attention, simply say hello and go about your business in another part of the room.

Another technique that can be very powerful, is to tell her that since she’s there, you’ll leave to make her more comfortable. If she insists that you stay, do stay but move away from her and mingle with other people. If she says nothing, or doesn't insist you stay, be nice and polite and simply go. It may be really hard on you, but that mature, confident, strong behavior will get her thinking.

It’s important to remember at all times how you appear to her. It’s going to be hard to get her back if you look childish or scheming.

Even if your ex girlfriend has a new boyfriend, you can win her back, you just need to tools to help you.

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